Tag Archives: Emotions

At the end of the day, all we want is...BEING HAPPY!

If we just put down our busy schedule and see what we are actually are doing? Weight loss, study, work, travel, etc. .. We do all these thing, because the core of our desire is: BEING HAPPY.

In short, we work hard to be happy. But how often do we ARE happy?

Health above everything, right?

We want a lot in our lives. A good relationship, good job, great kids, luxury vacations, nice cars but above all good health. We only have one body and we should take good care of it.

However, in everyday life it seems to come in second. There are other things that seem te be more important. Such as employment and income, a house and stuff  and  more stuff. The first video I ever saw on EFT was about money and abundance. I did not know what EFT was all about and thought I was dealing with a scam. But somehow it kept bugging me, so I dove into it to examine.

'You stupid woman !'

Last week I made a mistake. I stood in front of a group of people I really wanted to give a positive boost, but for some reason it did not work quite well. I had written down what I wanted to say, but had apparently chosen the wrong words and instead of the planned boost, it remained silent. My words were even completely misinterpreted.

Okay. Big blooper. When I got back to my chair I looked at my note. How could this go wrong? For a minute I got the feeling of failure and self conviction. Thoughts like 'O no, I have failed.' and words like René's (from the British comedy series "'Allo' Allo") 'You stupid woman!'

'Me? I am doing just fine ! :-) '

You probably recognize this. Just having a nice cup of coffee and then there she is, in the same restaurant as you, that woman who made a hurtful remark a few months ago. It hurted then so badly, that you’re now feeling it again. Your partner sees that you’re a bit shaken and asks what’s going on and you wave it gently away with: “Oh … I just thought of something unpleasant, but it’s already passed. ”

Your coffee time is quite cosey, but you are constantly aware of the presence of that woman, no matter how much you try to ignore her. And that bothers you somehow. It bothers you that you have not processed that stupid comment yet. That you haven’t thought of it for months, but now you’re confronted with ‘that woman’ you suddenly feel how much it bothers you.

Fact: Women don't allow each other to shine !

It strikes me that there are often posts on LinkedIN about the competition between women. There are questions like ‘Why women can’t stand each other “or “When will women stop putting each other down?” And there were a few more of those remarks. And if you believe headlines, you may start thinking that women all over the world are like that.

Does your heart need a boost? So you can hear it better?