Tag Archives: Acceptance

At the end of the day, all we want is...BEING HAPPY!

If we just put down our busy schedule and see what we are actually are doing? Weight loss, study, work, travel, etc. .. We do all these thing, because the core of our desire is: BEING HAPPY.

In short, we work hard to be happy. But how often do we ARE happy?




At the end of the day, only love matters...

Mankind has to deal with differences for centuries. In this video Andrew Solomon tells us about how we changed our way of thinking about homosexuality, deafness, autism, little people and Down's syndrome throughout the years.

Unconditional love is greater than everything else. Self-acceptance, family acceptance and social acceptance play a major role in developing vertical and horizontal identities.

Andrew has seen during this study "how much love there can be, when everything appears to go wrong." And that creates a beautiful perspective for the future of mankind.




What do you prefer: being independent or not?

Nobody wants to be dependent, at least most, healthy, good thinking people don't. They want to be independent.

And yet there isn't much about it in everyday life. Once something is not working out, we quickly point our finger at someone else. The government is not its job. The banks are making a mess of it. The young people in the neighborhood make too much noise. That stupid boss with his unreasonable requests. That pesky customer who could not come to a decision. Those weird relatives who never show up when you need them or they never leave.

Complaining and grumbling at others, indicates that we still depend on the other. Because if we would be truly independent then, what someone else says and does, does not effect us. Right?




Enjoy who you are and what you have !

Wasn't it nice, the inauguration of the new king? Such a solemn affair during which – like the NOS so beautifully pointed out – a prince became King and a Queen became a princess again. And then the royal display of royal robe, crown, scepter and throne. Oh, and that dress of Máxima … gorgeous! Yes, it was beautiful and very well organized.
(The photo is made by ANP)




When were you wrong lately ?

And how did that feel? Not good, right!

Why are we frustrated when we are wrong?
Because of our prejudices and the things we have learned about errors.

People who make mistakes are stupid, lazy and irresponsible morons. So when we find ourselves caught in a mistake, then … wé are stupid, lazy and irresponsible morons.













Does your heart need a boost? So you can hear it better?